Opening Lines of Communication

When Your Child Breaks the Rules

We all want a peaceful household, but conflict will probably arise when your child does not follow the rules. A question you might well ask is: What is the consequence for breaking the rules? Dr. Ramirez has a few suggestions. The important point here is to not overreact; however, you should set a punishment that has some impact. Remember, you’re the parent and you set the rules and the consequences, which are not negotiable.

• Restrict television and Internet use.
  
• Have your child read and discuss information about the harmful effects of drugs, tobacco or alcohol.
  
• Suspend outside activities such as going to the mall or movies.
  
• Temporarily restrict friends from coming over to the house and don’t allow visits to friends’ homes.
  
• Have your child perform a community service to encourage positive usage of time.
  
• Disallow telephone calls.

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